Tag: #personalgrowth
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The FUN FACTOR of life

What makes your life fun? A new blog: The FUN FACTOR of life! Most of us desire some form of change in our lives. Being aware of the fact that our patterns are deeply rooted inside of us and change requires perseverance, we love to postpone our actions. Many of us plan to work on…
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Food for thought

In what way are you conditioned? Where does your inner automatic pilot guide you to? I posted this blog a few years ago. As it’s still valuable, I decided to re-post today, as many of us will be watching tonight’s football match. Enjoy both the blog and the match! Warm regards, Pamela
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The invitation of the universe

I strongly believe the universe is with us. In small sparks it offers us opportunities, if only we learn to listen to it. This listening is challenging as it’s usually not a clear: ‘Hello, I have an offer to make’. It’s hidden in various messages or signs and we’re invited to filter them. The good news…
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The beauty of symmetry

Walking through the streets my eyes are caught by symmetry. I suppose to me it feels like balance, a delicate equilibrium that might be disturbed, but always finds it’s way back again. It’s perfect and imperfect. It’s moving. It’s what life is all about. One day it’s perfect, the next day you might face difficulties…
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A cold crash

What does your body tell you? I finally did it, I jumped into a lake in winter time. The temperature of the water was 6°C. 12 Years ago, I subscribed to a Wim Hof method breathing and ice bath workshop. It got cancelled due to a lack of participants. Back then, I was kind of…
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Be brave

Last week I went skiing with my oldest daughter. It was my present for her as she passed her exams. One day when I was changing my shoes, she picked up my skis and stored them in the locker. I was grateful as I was tired after a full day of skiing quite fanatically. This…
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This is what I could have said, but… I didn’t.

I’m reading a book, Jackdaws by Ken Follett. It’s about the resistance in France during the Second World War. It’s a good book. But that’s not what this blog is about. In the book I read a phrase: “Part of the time, I have to confess, I was composing wittily crushing remarks I could have…
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At ease

I’m in a garden, I sit at a wooden table and enjoy a nice cappuccino, I fill my lungs with fresh air and I realize that I’m at ease.I’m taking a yoga class in the yoga school that brings me to myself as soon as I enter the door, I’m at ease.I’m swimming, the water…
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Ganesha

A few years ago when I was in a huge process of transformation, a friend that travelled to India, brought me a Ganesha on his way back. Ganesha was there for me to guide me and symbolized new beginnings. Ganesha takes away obstacles and shows himself to the world in the shape of an elephant.…
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CHOICES

What was your answer when as a child someone asked you: “What do you want to become when you grow up?” My answer was, without any doubt: fashion designer. As a child I could spend hours in a book store scrolling through magazines admiring the latest designs from Chanel, Dior, YSL and many more. I…
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Dancing alone?!

May I invite you to dance alone occasionally? A few years ago I wanted to see a movie and litterally no one was available to join me. A friend said ‘why don’t you go alone’. Alone?! I know tons of people go to the movies alone, but for me at that time it was still…
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Guilty

The 7 sins. I’m guilty of prideI’m guilty of greedI’m guilty of wrathI’m guilty of envyI’m guilty of lustI’m guilty of gluttonyI’m guilty of sloth I’m guilty of being me. And honestly, I rather like being me. So, let me be guilty.
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The driving force of being

What hidden treasure unfolds for you when you allow yourself to be? I had a full day of nothing ahead of me. The luxury of an empty calendar. So, while having my first coffee of the day, I started planning in my head. First, finishing the book that I was reading, then bring it back…
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Your magic pause button

A blog about the joy of taking a break. Have a lovely summer holiday. Warm regards, Pamela
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Live in the moment

Wouldn’t it be great if I could only just be in the moment? In the moment I experience no expectation of the future, no pain or regret from the past. The moment is the great nothingness and the overwhelming all. I try to be in the moment…. Easier said than done and probably forever work…
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The acceptance of what is

He’s 88 years old. My passenger. We’re on our way to our 10 day Vipassana meditation course. It’s my second course. It’s his 15th. I sense that I can learn from him, so instead of listening to some music, my normal routine in the car, which I find very relaxing, the radio is turned off…
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Comfort zone

What does your comfort zone look like? Enjoy my new blog “Comfort zone”. Warm regards, Pamela
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Running the extra mile

Are you on the right track? Enjoy my new blog “Running the extra mile”. Warm regards, Pamela
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Inspiration overflow

I thought after writing my first few blogs that I’d written my story and that my short career as a blogger would end there. Oh, boy, how I was wrong! When I finally started allowing my creativity to flow, I found out it’s endless. It will never stop. And yes, I’m excited, because there’s more…
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WALKING ON SUNSHINE

Katrina and The Waves (1985) Today I’m walking on sunshine, yesterday I was walking on sunshine. For a long time now I feel great and I’m walking on sunshine. Over the past years that was not always the case. I’ve travelled a bumpy road that had highs and lows. Sometimes it was difficult to see…
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Dankbaar! (Grateful! English version below)

Na het posten van mijn vorige blog werd ik overweldigd door een intens gevoel van dankbaarheid. Via allerlei kanalen kreeg ik werkelijk prachtige, hartverwarmende reacties. Ik voelde me groot en klein tegelijk. Groot omdat dat wat ik te zeggen heb bij jullie resoneert en klein omdat ik maar gewoon een radertje in het grote geheel…
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FREEDOM

When do you feel free? One of the fun parts of posting blogs is that you get connected with all kinds of people. People that you know well, people that you never met, people close by and people living at the other side of the world. People that you haven’t seen or spoken to for…
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Breathe! And…Vive la vie!

A trip from Amsterdam to Maastricht 425 kms in one day I’m in my car Alone The radio is on Me singing Loud. Where would I be without my breath? Breathing, we do it every day, hour, minute, second. It’s a natural process that we hardly ever think about and yet for many of us…
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The mindf**k of the ego

What are you blaming yourself for? Your ego, you really need it to materialize things in this world. But, your ego also plays a game with you. It’s criticizing you. It piles you up with loads of guilt feelings: “I should have known better”, “ I didn’t take the right strategy”. We all know it’s…
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Fear is a road to nowhere. What are your after summer plans?

Summer holidays, for some of us is a time to reflect and make new plans. In September, instead of materialising these great ideas, very often our plans fade away, like the sun that is moving away from us for a while. All regular activities start again, colleagues easily fill our calendars, we bring our kids…
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Celebrate life!

Celebrate life! Both! I want both: I want to dance until the sun comes up in the morning and I want to do an early morning walk to see the same sun and nature waking up. See link for full blog.
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Focussssssst

Sssssst, be silent and listen to the sounds around you. Can you focus? Or does your mind take over and are you distracted by numerous thoughts? Did you ever drive your car to a place where you often go to and find out upon arrival that that place wasn’t the goal of today’s destination?Did you…
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Wise books

Whenever I read a wise book, something happens in my body. I feel a sense of bliss, a sense of coming home. I love this feeling of being at home. At home in my body, at home at myself, at home being just me. Being the Pamela that I truly am. To me there are…
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EYE-OPENER?!

Recently, I was in the garden of a friend overlooking the IJ river in the heart of Amsterdam. A sailing boat passed by in the distance. My friend is a sailor and was on his ship that week and stayed the night in a harbour at another village. He recognized the ship and said to…
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Mirror mirror on the wall

I look at myself in the mirror, I’m staring at the irrevocable process of growing older. I can brush it off and tell you I don’t mind. That would be a lie. I don’t like the signs in my face that show I’m ageing. But, I also feel blessed that I’m ageing, because if I…
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Be patient and crack that shell!

A seagull opens an oyster by throwing it on a stone ground from a certain height. If the shell cracks, his food is readily available. If it doesn’t, he picks the shell up again, flies to an adequate height and drops the shell another time. This goes on until the shell is open. There’s no…
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Hoe schrijf ik, op internationale vrouwendag, een ode aan alle wijze vrouwen zonder namen te noemen maar met het raken van jullie harten? (Below English version)

An ode to all woman. Originally written in Dutch, also translated in English today, international womans day. Happy reading, warm regards, Pamela
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Your golden next step?

Just tap from the pool of abundance! In my life there is a wise lady. She always says she likes to become one when she grows old, but to me she already is. In the past, when she saw me struggling with something, she would give me guidance. An example? I subcribed to an energy…
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Wake up your wisdom!

Today I write my first blog in English. I was a member of Junior Chamber International (JCI) some years ago. The slogan of JCI is learning by doing. So, let’s overcome uncertainties and see how far I get in English. At JCI, the moment you hit 40 you need to step back for the next…





